My Top 10 Parenting Pet Peeves

10. Pushing pregnancy. You have one child so when are you going to have another one? You should really have another child for him/her to play with. Really? So who's going to carry this child for 40 weeks because I sure as heck am not? Are you going to financially support this child for me? Oh ok exactly what I thought so stop asking me!

9. Moms judging other moms. Listen just because you never received the love or weren't shown affection as a child does not mean that I am not going to give love and show affection towards my child. Which is probably why your children are half crazy with robotic behavior now. To each their own but I love my daughter dearly and I going to make sure she knows it on a regular basis. I am a mother and my job is to nurture my child and I don't need your approval to do it.

8. Inattentive Parents- I am so tired of walking into establishments and seeing small children running around the supermarket unattended and climbing all inside of the refrigerated coolers. It's like the parents are waiting for them to fall and hurt themselves or better yet for that unsuspecting child predator to walk up and snatch your child right from under your nose.

7. Obese Children - First off, I am not referring to children with medical conditions that may cause obesity. I am speaking to the parents that are eating unhealthy and allowing their child(ren) to eat unhealthy. This is not fair. Children don't know what is healthy and what is not and children can not prepare their own healthy dishes. So just because you as a parent live to eat, doesn' t mean you should inflict such an unhealthy life style upon an  innocent child.

6. Adults are properly dressed, yet your child/children looks bummish. Really? So you're dressed to the T but your child is looking like a bum. It's cold out side and while you are dressed in you jackets and boots and your children are out with a jacket and no shoes. Go figure.

5. Comparison of children. This absolutely erks my nerves. Never ever compare your child's appearance, intelligence, and abilities to another. They are unique and over time will progress and come into their own.

4. Deadbeat or Disconnected Parent. You made the choice to conceive once you laid down butt naked but now you refuse to be apart of the child's life. You have custody of your kids, but you never have them and that's by choice. Instead of being in your child's life you rather watch them grow up on social media! I'm sure that will get you the bet parent award! You never have your kids except for the holidays and that's just to put on for social media. Go kill yourself! You're not fooling anyone but yourself!

3. When someone with zero kids or with a lot of children... but didn't raise any of them, wants to tell me how I should discipline or raise my child, yet they don't know the difference between bad and active.

2. Bad @zz /Violent Kids with Sorry @zz Parents. My apologies but there was just no other way to name this peeve. You as a parent sit back and watch your aggressively violent child attack another child and you don't address it. Ok you won't so I will but it's not going to be pretty.

                     LAST BUT NOT LEAST, MY MOST BIGGEST PEEVE!

1. Favoritism. The worst thing you can do to me is to show favoritism towards a child , especially against mine! If you are a parent, grand parent, relative, or a close friend of the family the last thing you should do is exhibit such behavior towards the children. They maybe "children" but they are not dumb and they can see it as clear as daylight. If there are 5 kids in that home and the holidays come around then there should be 5 equivalent gifts going to that home. No child is better than the other where you feel that it is ok to buy for one but not the other, spend more time with one but not the other, uplift one but not the other, claim one but not the other. If you do then you need help. I suggest you go get it.